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Confession: Christ Receives, the Priest Witnesses, You Are Healed

The video addresses why many people avoid confession for years, identifying fear of the priest's judgment or changed perception as the main obstacle. It explains the Orthodox understanding: during confession the priest declares that Christ stands invisibly to receive the confession while the priest serves only as a witness. The penitent stands before a doctor, not a judge, and there is nothing the priest has not heard before.

Practical steps are given: find a priest and ask to make your confession; prepare by honestly examining yourself using the commandments or the questions in an Orthodox prayer book and writing down what is on your heart. During confession, state simply what you did and how often, without excuses, explanations, or other people's stories; the priest will ask for more detail if needed.

At the end the priest places his stole over your head and reads the prayer of forgiveness. The speaker testifies that regular confession with a spiritual father has made him refrain from small sins he once committed without thinking, because he knows he will have to name them again. He cites Saint John's promise that God is faithful and just to forgive confessed sins, and urges not to wait for a perfect moment because there is none.

Key moments

  1. People avoid confession for years because they fear the priest will judge them, look at them differently, or because they are scared to say the words aloud.
  2. In Orthodox confession the priest says, "Christ stand here invisibly, receiving your confession. I'm only a witness."
  3. You are not standing before a judge but before a doctor, and there is nothing you can say that the priest has not heard before.
  4. To start, find a priest and simply ask, "Father, I'd like to make my confession."
  5. Before going, sit down and be honest with yourself, go through the commandments or use the questions in the Orthodox prayer book, and write down what is on your heart.
  6. When confessing, do not explain, make excuses, or tell the story of everyone else; just say what you did, naming it honestly and saying how often.
  7. The priest puts his stole over your head and reads the prayer of forgiveness at the end.
  8. Since the speaker began confessing regularly with his spiritual father, he holds back many small sins he used to do without thinking, because he knows he will have to say them again.
7 opinions in the discussion 7 participants, 3 replies to each other The opinion with the most support If I've never confessed before... do I confess everything I've done in my life from the very start, or do I begin from somewhere in the middle? (new to the orthodox faith) Read the discussion
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  • opinion#3176

    If I've never confessed before... do I confess everything I've done in my life from the very start, or do I begin from somewhere in the middle? (new to the orthodox faith)

    • opinion#3177

      usually at the beginning, or at least once in your life, it's good to do a general confession first, meaning confessing every sin you can remember from the start, but the best thing is to just start as soon as you can, however you can, and you'll get used to it πŸ₯ΉπŸ€πŸ™ some people use a list of sins to guide them, others just confess whatever is weighing on their heart or mind, whatever they feel guilty about. the guide helps at first because there might be things we don't even realize are sins. πŸ₯Ή there's nothing, NOTHING, like how you feel after confession, like a weight has been lifted πŸ₯ΉπŸ€πŸ™

    • opinion#3178

      β€οΈπŸ‘ thank you so much

    • opinion#3179

      before baptism you do a life confession, which covers everything from your past and present. I was really scared going in. I assumed it would happen in the priest's office. Turns out it's in the church, in front of the icon of Christ with the priest there, and I cried πŸ˜‚

  • opinion#3175

    Good topic. It got me thinking about why I've never worried about being judged or about confidentiality when talking to a counsellor, but confessing to a priest feels different? If anywhere should feel safe to speak openly without judgment, it should be confession, with a holy person standing in for the compassionate love of Christ. I know that's logically true but I still hesitate πŸ™πŸ»

  • opinion#3174

    On the subject of confession, my priest tells me "come early, come often." What helps me is writing my sins down on a small piece of paper so I don't forget them, and it also makes my confession more organized. Once it's done, I tear the paper up. 😊

  • opinion#3173

    The first time I did my life confession, with the icon of Christ in front of me and my priest there, I looked up after saying everything, and for a second I honestly felt like I saw Christ in my priest, just from the way he was looking at me. I can't really explain it any better than that.